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How Negative Energy Affects Your Life and How to Clear It
We tend to perceive negative energy as something other people have.
Sure, sometimes we feel negative – as in, “go away and leave me alone,
world!” but did you know that negativity can be so ingrained in you that
it goes unnoticed?
That’s because negativity sometimes wears a disguise called ‘reality’. It’s easy to rationalize that you’re ‘just being realistic’ in not daring to act on a dream – and believe it!
You may assume that positive people are not being realistic – that they’re being naive, that they are in denial with their heads stuck in the sand, that they put on fake smiles in the face of difficulty and so forth. But are they really happy idiots or is there something to their positivity?
That’s because negativity sometimes wears a disguise called ‘reality’. It’s easy to rationalize that you’re ‘just being realistic’ in not daring to act on a dream – and believe it!
You may assume that positive people are not being realistic – that they’re being naive, that they are in denial with their heads stuck in the sand, that they put on fake smiles in the face of difficulty and so forth. But are they really happy idiots or is there something to their positivity?
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Women today are turned on by intelligence in men, which is called sapiosexuality
If the early 2000s marked the spotlight on well-groomed metrosexuals, it was followed by the macho retrosexuals in the latter half of the decade. The past few years spoke about the kitchen-loving gastrosexual men. This year has seen women taking a fancy to the intellectual man — the sapiosexual. A character like Riz Ahmed's in Mira Nair's latest release is an example of this trend. - See more at: http://newstimes.co.in/readnews.aspx?id=21916#sthash.uFpWlg9N.dpuf
If the early 2000s marked the spotlight on well-groomed metrosexuals, it was followed by the macho retrosexuals in the latter half of the decade. The past few years spoke about the kitchen-loving gastrosexual men. This year has seen women taking a fancy to the intellectual man — the sapiosexual. A character like Riz Ahmed's in Mira Nair's latest release is an example of this trend. - See more at: http://newstimes.co.in/readnews.aspx?id=21916#sthash.uFpWlg9N.dpuf
Women today are turned on by intelligence in men, which is called sapiosexuality
If the early 2000s marked the spotlight on well-groomed metrosexuals, it was followed by the macho retrosexuals in the latter half of the decade. The past few years spoke about the kitchen-loving gastrosexual men. This year has seen women taking a fancy to the intellectual man — the sapiosexual. A character like Riz Ahmed's in Mira Nair's latest release is an example of this trend.
Sapiosexuality is getting aroused not by the physical appearance of a person, but through his or her intelligence. Recent times have seen women, particularly, falling for men who fit this bill. Says social psychologist Anisha Coutinho, "If we look at films, for instance, the kind of subaltern idols being celebrated in a more mainstream fashion, be it filmmakers like Anurag Kashyap, Dibakar Banerjee or Sujoy Ghosh, or actors like Irrfan Khan and Abhay Deol, are all reasons for believing how women prefer brains to mere good looksthese days and it is high time that reflected in the films too."
People also opine that women today are looking for intellectual stimulation, when in a relationship. Dr Anjali Chhabria, psychiatrist, says, "Traditionally, women have been intelligent than men and, hence, they always looked for intelligence in men. The man-woman relationship first started through the need for protection. Today, a woman can do what a man does, if not more than that. Thus, when she wants to relate to a man, she looks for intellectual stimulation before anything else. This is the basis for many of the relationships today." - See more at: http://newstimes.co.in/readnews.aspx?id=21916#sthash.uFpWlg9N.dp
If the early 2000s marked the spotlight on well-groomed metrosexuals, it was followed by the macho retrosexuals in the latter half of the decade. The past few years spoke about the kitchen-loving gastrosexual men. This year has seen women taking a fancy to the intellectual man — the sapiosexual. A character like Riz Ahmed's in Mira Nair's latest release is an example of this trend.
Sapiosexuality is getting aroused not by the physical appearance of a person, but through his or her intelligence. Recent times have seen women, particularly, falling for men who fit this bill. Says social psychologist Anisha Coutinho, "If we look at films, for instance, the kind of subaltern idols being celebrated in a more mainstream fashion, be it filmmakers like Anurag Kashyap, Dibakar Banerjee or Sujoy Ghosh, or actors like Irrfan Khan and Abhay Deol, are all reasons for believing how women prefer brains to mere good looksthese days and it is high time that reflected in the films too."
People also opine that women today are looking for intellectual stimulation, when in a relationship. Dr Anjali Chhabria, psychiatrist, says, "Traditionally, women have been intelligent than men and, hence, they always looked for intelligence in men. The man-woman relationship first started through the need for protection. Today, a woman can do what a man does, if not more than that. Thus, when she wants to relate to a man, she looks for intellectual stimulation before anything else. This is the basis for many of the relationships today." - See more at: http://newstimes.co.in/readnews.aspx?id=21916#sthash.uFpWlg9N.dp
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Consider this: since when does ‘being realistic’ necessarily mean that things will go wrong and that you have to accept that as the truth?
That doesn’t mean that being realistic is automatically negative.
When you view the world from a ‘realistic’ standpoint, you can’t help
but be negative IF your version of reality is negative.
If your version of reality is negative, you are conditioned to
believe that whatever can go wrong, will go wrong and whatever can go
right, will probably go wrong too.
Your unconsciously held beliefs make you into a negative person without your being aware of it!
So – if this negativity is so ingrained in you that you don’t notice
it, how do you determine whether you’re stuck in a cloud of negative
energy that is attracting the wrong people, wrong situations and wrong
feelings? And how can you be sure you’re not perpetuating that
negativity?
Here’s a quick quiz to gauge the level of negative energy within you:
- Do you complain? All the time or just sometimes?
- Do you often discuss what’s wrong in the world more than what’s right? This includes the ‘terrible’ weather, ‘horrible’ traffic, ‘idiotic’ government, ‘lousy’ economy, ‘stupid’ in-laws, etc.
- Do you criticize? All the time or just certain people?
- Are you attracted to drama and disaster (can you unglue yourself from the TV when there’s a news story of a disaster and can you avoid getting involved in the lives of dysfunctional celebrities?)
- Do you blame? All the time or just certain situations?
- Do you believe that you have no control over most of your results?
- Do you feel like a victim? Do you talk about people doing things to you?
- Are you grateful for what is or will you be grateful when things finally start going right for you?
- Do you feel like things are happening to you? Or do you feel that they are happening through you?
This last two points are important:
If you’re not grateful except when things go right, you are negative. Gratitude is positive. If you are grateful for what is (including the unpleasant school of life lessons, then you can invite more and more positive energy into your life.
Believing that things happen to you puts you in the role
of victim; then it’s easy to be negative because it’s convenient to give
up that power. So consider this alternative: who or what is to blame when GOOD things happen to you?
Do you acknowledge that you are responsible for the good things – as
in, you worked hard, you earned it, etc… but blame external events or
other people for your failures? So how come, when good things happen,
they are a result of what you do, but when bad things happen, they are
not your fault?
Nobody likes to hear that. It takes courage to accept that you create your life experience!
If you answered yes to any of the above questions, you are holding on
to negative energy to some degree! To clear your negative energy and
raise your vibration, you will need to retrain yourself to choose a positive attitude.
Here’s another interesting idea to consider: have you noticed that
positive people seem to get what they want out of life, and even if
things don’t go their way, they still enjoy their lives… while negative
people whine and moan about their misfortunes and even the good things
in their lives?
To clear negative energy, try this 3 -step process:
1. Take ownership: “When you think everything is someone
else’s fault, you will suffer a lot. When you realize that everything
springs only from yourself, you will learn both peace and joy.” – the Dalai Lama
2. Cancel negative thoughts and replace them with positive thoughts.
This takes practice, dedication and making a decision to see the world
through the eyes of “what can go right” instead of “what can go wrong.”
You’ll have to catch yourself anytime you are acting out or speaking out
your negativity, and immediately change your tune.
3. Use the Love or Above Spiritual Toolkit to clear your
energy and bring more light and love into your life; visualize the
positive instead of getting sucked into negativity; overcome past
conditioning; think intuitively from the soul instead from ‘reality’;
create a new, desired reality in your imagination and manifest it in the
outer world. Nobody wants negative energy to permeate their lives,
yet many of us allow it. But we allow it unconsciously, based on past
conditioning that suggests an inevitable outcome to certain situations.
When you overcome that conditioning and realize that the future is NOT
cast in stone but that you have more control over your circumstances
than you believe – then you can begin to consciously design your life.
What’s going to happen then? Your positive energy will magnetically
attract what you consider to be good and right for you: people,
situations, things… and you’ll notice a huge, huge increase in your
happiness and inner peace.
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